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without name
08 - 02 - 09, 03:36 PM
every woman consider her husband the most important person in her life she always is awake before her husband in order to prepare his breakfast,tend to her childrenand look after her family ........................not this only but she also must do
all demostic duties lonely without any help of her husband he think that all she do is an easy task and all she do didn't satisfy him
she is working like him and after working she is preparing the dinner,washing the dishes ,cleaning the house,learning the childrenthe valueslike respecting the old,being polite,.........and so on all of this an easy task! you are at fault just try to return from your work and do all what she do instead of returning from your work ,reading newspaper and shouting"where is the dinner"?try to do that and you will find it isn't an easy task as you thought

not also but many mans punching her wife refering to many reasons as she didn't p repare the dinner at time,to polite her...........................and so on
after all her sacrifices she may punished from her husband and many accept the punishment in asheepish manner for she has never needed to stand up to her husband تواجهه بجراة

another reason that the society treats the divorced women in a cruel way so she accepts his punishment and she keep silent in order not to destroy her family
to every women don't accept punishment like animals your husband must respect your rights and realize your important role in your family don;'t let him punching you in asheepish manner


why it isn't allowed to woman to punch her husband if he punched her without a reason ?....


punch لكمة او ضربة

the animator
08 - 02 - 09, 06:42 PM
nice thread hooma
and I think that women have a very great ability to be patient more than the men
and about the punishment
some men is punishing their wifes in a painful way
but there are some cases , punishing the woman could be useful
{ وَاللاَّتِي تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلاَ تَبْغُواْ عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلاً إِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا} (34) سورة النساء
and it's the last solution , and the punishing must be harmless

Ata' said: "I asked Ibn Abbas: 'What is the hitting that is ghayr al-mubarrih?' He replied: '[With] the siwak and the like'." Narrated by al-Tabari in his Tafsir.

without name
08 - 02 - 09, 09:39 PM
thanks animator for participating us with your opinion i know as you said there is some cases man should punish his wife but i talk about punishing in asheepish manner without a reason

and i also wondered why it isn't allowed for woman to punch her husband if he punched her without a reason

the animator
08 - 02 - 09, 10:50 PM
and i also wondered why it isn't allowed for woman to punch her husband if he punched her without a reason

we all know that it's not right at all for a man to be punished by a woman
it's not only illegal but it's also against morals
but some of men's behavior against their wifes is not from morals this days
سلوك behavior
أخلاق morals


{وَإِنِ امْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِن بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا أَوْ إِعْرَاضًا فَلاَ جُنَاْحَ عَلَيْهِمَا أَن يُصْلِحَا بَيْنَهُمَا صُلْحًا وَالصُّلْحُ خَيْرٌ وَأُحْضِرَتِ الأَنفُسُ الشُّحَّ وَإِن تُحْسِنُواْ وَتَتَّقُواْ فَإِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ خَبِيرًا} (128) سورة النساء

that is the solution
the solution is not by bad reaction
it's by good behavior and by magistrate

رد فعل reaction
الصلح magistrate

magistrate should be supervisored by two wise men

تحت اشراف supervisored

{وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ شِقَاقَ بَيْنِهِمَا فَابْعَثُواْ حَكَمًا مِّنْ أَهْلِهِ وَحَكَمًا مِّنْ أَهْلِهَا إِن يُرِيدَا إِصْلاَحًا يُوَفِّقِ اللّهُ بَيْنَهُمَا إِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ عَلِيمًا خَبِيرًا } (35) سورة النساء

but in one condition if they really want magistrate

في حالة واحدة in one condition

without name
08 - 02 - 09, 11:27 PM
Thank you animator for this information